10 Dec 2013
Don’t take it personally
I have been noticing that people tend to feel hurt or sometimes, even insulted, when they’re robbed of an opportunity they thought that they truly deserved. When something doesn’t go in our favor, we tend to blame the “biased” system.
However, most systems are never perfect and are only designed to function well for the majority of the people. To put it another way, systems are often designed to scale. You might be an exception and have every right to feel disappointed to be hard done by the rules of the game. But, don’t take it personally.